zaterdag 31 mei 2014




You have no responsibility to live up 
to what other people think you ought to accomplish. 
I have no responsibility to be like they expect me to be. 
 It's their mistake, not my failing.

http://zichtopinzicht.wordpress.com/2013/09/24/hoera-het-is-vandaag/





Liefde is warmte geven
 maar niemand verbranden, 

vuur zijn 
maar niemand verteren.

- Phil Bosmans -







http://www.hetbewustepad.nl



Rushing along 
to be something in the next moment,
we fail to open and appreciate this moment

- Ajahn Sucitto -







In a life properly lived, you’re a river.

You touch things lightly or deeply;

you move along because life herself moves,

and you can’t stop it…


- Jim Harrison -








But it is not what I am saying that is hurting you;
 it is that you have wounds that I touch by what I have said. 
You are hurting yourself. 
 There is no way I can take this personally.
 
 
 
 

Her




The past is just a story 
 
we tell ourselves. 

- Her - 





vrijdag 30 mei 2014

William Vanderson



Als we de impuls om pijnlijke gevoelens te vermijden

ombuigen tot de wil om ze onder ogen te zien

en diepgaand te exploreren, dan vinden we in de kern

van deze gevoelens precies datgene

wat we nastreefden door ze te vermijden.




- Rupert Spira -



donderdag 29 mei 2014





Alles wat een begin heeft,
heeft ook een einde.

Sluit daar vrede mee
 en alles komt goed.
 
- Boeddha - 






There are some people who could hear you speak a thousand words, and still not understand you. And there are others who will understand — without you even speaking a word.
- Yasmin Mogahed -



Yiruma - River Flows in You




Where [do I go from here]?

I asked myself that question when I was twenty,
again when I was thirty,
again when I was forty, fifty …

I could never answer it.

Now I know something: I have to persist.
That means live, write, and face,
 like everyone else,
the other side of every life
- the unknown.


- Octavio Paz -







You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I’ll rise.

- Maya Angelou, “Still I Rise” -






Where is there a place for you to be?  No place. 
Nothing outside you can give you any place. 
In yourself right now is all the place you’ve got.
You needn’t look at the sky because 
it’s not going to open up and show no place behind it. 
You can’t go neither forwards nor backwards 
into your daddy’s time nor your children’s if you have them. 
In yourself right now is all the place you’ve got. 
If there was any Fall, look there, 
if there was any Redemption, look there, 
and if you expect any Judgment, look there, 
because they all three will have to be in your time 
and your body and where in your time and your body can they be?

- Flannery O Connor, Wise Blood -




R.I.P. Maya Angelou





woensdag 28 mei 2014




Laat je leven niet aan je voorbijgaan
Laat het je niet overkomen
Zorg dat je erbij bent
Maak het mee 
Wees






Je n'aime pas le mot "handicapé". C'est un mot anglais, ça voudrait dire "la main dans le chapeau".
Je n'aime pas non plus le mot "anormal", surtout quand il est collé à "enfant".
Qu'est-ce que ça veut dire, normal ? Comme il faut être, comme on devrait être, c'est-à-dire dans la moyenne, moyen. Je n'aime pas trop ce qui est dans la moyenne, je préfère ceux qui ne sont pas dans la moyenne, ceux au-dessus, et pourquoi pas ceux au-dessous, en tout cas pas comme tout le monde. Je préfère l'expression "pas comme les autres". Parce que je n'aime pas toujours les autres.
Ne pas être comme les autres, ça ne veut pas dire forcément être moins bien que les autres, ça veut dire être différent des autres.
(...)
Einstein, Mozart, Michel-Ange n'étaient pas comme les autres.

- Jean-Louis Fournier - Où on va, papa? -





You can’t go on like you’re going to start really living one day, like all this is some preamble to some great life that’s going to magically appear.

I’m a firm believer that you have to create your own miracles. Don’t hold out that there’s something better waiting on the other side. It doesn’t work that way.

- Perry Moore -
 
 
 



Oefen het terugkeren naar huis
telkens als je je verloren, vervreemd
of van het leven afgesneden voelt,
telkens als je wanhopig, boos of onevenwichtig bent. 

Met aandacht ademhalen is het voertuig
waarmee je terugkeert naar je ware thuis. 

- Thich Nhat Hanh - 







I am made 
and remade
 continually.
 
- Virginia Woolf - 
 
 
 



The hunger to belong is not merely a desire to be attached to something. It is rather sensing that great transformation and discovery become possible when belonging is sheltered and true.


 John O Donohue






Als we boos zijn, 
zijn we geneigd de ander te zien 
als de bron van ons lijden. 

We zien hem of haar als de boosdoener.

Maar eigenlijk worden we vernietigd door onze woede.

- Thich Nhat Hanh -






Not just the body but all natural things, 
when left undisturbed, 
move naturally toward beauty and wholeness. 

If you don’t keep repaving it every few years, 
an ugly parking lot will crack, grass will come up, 
and after 100 years or so you’ll probably have a beautiful forest. 

Your body is the same way. 
Stop “paving it over” with artificial ways of being, 
stop trying to be other than what you are,
 and it will move towards its natural state of health and beauty. 

It happens sooner than you think. 
Why else is rest so healing? 
Have you ever noticed how beautiful a sleeping person looks? 

 Thubten Ngawang





Everyone underestimates their own life. 
Funny thing is, in the end, all our stories…
they’re the same. 
In fact, no matter where you go in the world, 
there is only one important story: 
of youth, loss and yearning for redemption. 
So we tell the same story, over and over. 
Only the details are different.

 - Rohinton Mistry, Family Matters -






dinsdag 27 mei 2014




Je hoeft niet alles voor iedereen te zijn. 






Het is niet datgene wat je vreest dat pijn doet. 

Wat pijn doet is de vrees zelf. 






DEFINIEREN
 
IS 
 
BEPERKEN
 
 
 





When you get out of the driver’s seat, 
you find that life can drive itself, 
that actually life has always been driving itself. 
 
When you get out of the driver’s seat,
it can drive itself so much easier —
it can flow in ways you never imagined. 
 
Life becomes almost magical. 
The illusion of the “me” is no longer in the way. 
 
Life begins to flow, 
and you never know where it will take you.
 
- Adyashanti -
 
 
 
 

Hans Zimmer & Lisa Gerrard - Sorrow




Refuse to fall down. 

 

If you cannot refuse to fall down, refuse to stay down, lift your heart toward heaven like a hungry beggar, ask that it be filled and it will be filled. 

 

You may be pushed down. You may be kept from rising. But no one can keep you from lifting your heart toward heaven-only you.

 

 It is in the middle of misery that so much becomes clear. 

 

The one who says nothing good came of this is not yet listening.

 

 

- Clarissa Pinkola Estès - 

 

 

 

 

 

http://scootaway.tumblr.com/post/86976690081/spacewhereicanbreathe-i-used-to-have-to-remind



ALLES 
IS 
TIJDELIJK 






De ergste tirannen 
zijn die welke in onze eigen borst wonen. 

  - William Ellery Channing -



Game of Thrones




Most things will be okay eventually, but not everything will be. Sometimes you’ll put up a good fight and lose. Sometimes you’ll hold on really hard and realize there is no choice but to let go.
- Cheryl Strayed -



maandag 26 mei 2014




Perhaps the biggest tragedy of our lives is that freedom is possible, yet we can pass our years trapped in the same old patterns...

We may want to love other people without holding back, to feel authentic, to breathe in the beauty around us, to dance and sing. 

 Yet each day we listen to inner voices that keep our life small.


- Tara Brach -

 



The less I needed, 

the better I felt.

- Charles Bukowski -






A dishonest yes

is a no to yourself.


- Byron Katie -






Het enige menselijke drama dat er is,
is het afwijzen van de ervaring
die er in het moment is.

- Isaac Shapiro -



Lisa Gerrard - Now We Are Free - Gladiator HD




I follow four dictates: 
face it, 
accept it, 
deal with it, 
then let it go.
 
- Sheng-yen -






Nature does not hurry,

 yet everything is accomplished. 

- Lao Tzu -



zondag 25 mei 2014





Don’t be concerned with how others define you. 
When they define you, they are limiting themselves, 
so it’s their problem. 
 
- Eckhart Tolle -



http://naturesdoorways.tumblr.com/post/86727922510/thetimsah-gunayd-n



Leave behind the world of sorrow, 
of preoccupation,
and get free.

The latest good news is 
that you can do it

- Thich Nhat Hanh -






Even when you think you have your life all mapped out,

things happen that shape your destiny

in ways you might never have imagined.

- Deepak Chopra -






The future is never set in stone,

remember that.

- Erin Morgenstern -






Now all you can do is wait. 

It must be hard for you, but there is a right time for everything. 

Like the ebb and flow of tides. No one can do anything to change them. 

When it is time to wait, you must wait.

- Haruki Murakami -