vrijdag 29 augustus 2014

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R.I.P. Gypsy

(29-1-2004 - 28-8-2014)


donderdag 28 augustus 2014




A good conscience 

is a soft pillow.
 

- German Proverb - 




woensdag 27 augustus 2014




To fear death, gentlemen, is no other than to think oneself wise when one is not, to think one knows what one does not know.

No one knows whether death may not be the greatest of all blessings for a man, yet men fear it as if they knew that it is the greatest of evils.

And surely it is the most blameworthy ignorance to believe that one knows what one does not know.

- Socrates - 





A plausible mission of artists 
is to make people appreciate being alive, 
at least a little bit… 
 
- Kurt Vonnegut -






You must recognize that your real enemy,
the thief who steals your happiness,
is the inner thief, 
the one inside your mind.

- Lama Yeshe -




The most difficult times for many of us

are the ones we give ourselves.


- Pema Chodron -



dinsdag 26 augustus 2014





We are never further from the truth 

than when we are certain.


- Rodney Smith -






The medicine of words
 
medicina verbi.
 
 
- Anna Kamienska -







No matter what they wish for,
 no matter how far they go,
people can never be anything but themselves.

- Haruki Murakami -
 
 
 



For every outside there is an inside
 and for every inside there is an outside,
 and although they are different, 
they go together. 

- Alan Watts -





Sam Dillemans - The Madness In The Detail

maandag 25 augustus 2014




We all arrive by different streets,

by unequal languages, 
 
at Silence.
 
 
 – Pablo Neruda -








Some day soon, perhaps in forty years, there will be no one alive who has ever known me. That’s when I will be truly dead - when I exist in no one’s memory. I thought a lot about how someone very old is the last living individual to have known some person or cluster of people. When that person dies, the whole cluster dies,too, vanishes from the living memory.

I wonder who that person will be for me. Whose death will make me truly dead?

Irvin D. Yalom, Love’s Executioner and Other Tales of Psychotherapy









Each second we live is a new and unique moment of the universe, a moment that will never be again. 
 
And what do we teach our children? We teach them that two and two make four, and that Paris is the capital of France. When will we also teach them what they are? We should say to each of them: Do you know what you are? You are a marvel. You are unique. In all the years that have passed, there has never been another child like you. Your legs, your arms, the way you move. You may become a Shakespeare, a Michelangelo, a Beethoven. You have the capacity for anything. Yes, you are a marvel. And when you grow up, can you then harm another who is, like you, a marvel? You must work, we must all work, to make the world worthy of its children.
 
 
- Pablo Picasso -  







We are all a people in need.  
We are not perfect.  
We are not machines.  
We make mistakes.  
We need grace.  
We need compassion.  
We need help at times.  
We need other people. 
 And that’s okay.

- Jamie Tworkowski -






Give up defining yourself — to yourself or to others.
You won’t die. You will come to life. 
And don’t be concerned with how others define you. 
When they define you, they are limiting themselves, so it’s their problem.


- Eckhart Tolle -




zondag 24 augustus 2014




We took such care of tomorrow, 
but died on the way there.

- Warsan Shire -








Happiness
is the abscence
 of the striving for happiness.

- Zhuangzi -






Hoe kun je met hetzelfde hoofd dat ongerust is 
 
jezelf kalmeren?
 
 
  
 



 Mijn luxe is : weinig nodig hebben om me goed te voelen. Als je niet veel hebt kun je twee dingen doen: leven met het gevoel dat je tekortkomt, of beslissen wat essentieel is en daarvan genieten. De essentiële dingen zijn vaak niet eens tastbaar: licht, lucht, gezondheid, warmte, water. En ik moet kunnen bewegen. 
Ik heb alle stadia van rouw doorlopen, maar de dokters stelden me gerust. Het zou veel tijd kosten, ik zou logopedie moeten volgen en weer leren ademen, praten en zingen, maar mijn stem zou terugkeren. Zo had ik een jaar om na te denken wat ik er dan mee zou doen. Er gaat niets boven ziekte om je prioriteiten vast te stellen: dat heeft mijn oma mij geleerd toen ze zelf ziek was. Mijn stem verliezen is een cadeau geweest. Ik heb ervoor gekozen om toen op te groeien. Ik weet nu ook dat niets verworven is: mijn stem vereist elke dag goede zorg.

- Melanie De Biasio - De Standaard -