You don't need to know with absolute certainty 

what the future will hold. 

You just have to trust 

that no matter what happens, 

you'll find a way to be okay. 

 

 

R.I.P. Helen McCrory

 

 I feel as though my life is bathed

 

 in golden sunlight.

 

 And the really wonderful thing is

 

 that I know it.

 

- Helen McCrory - 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 You can never have a peaceful relationship

 with someone

 who’s always at war

 with themselves.

 

 

 

 

Ik heb geen nieuw inzicht gekregen

 

Ik heb geen nieuw inzicht gekregen

 door mijn mooie, aangename gevoelens,

 maar door de gevoelens

 waartegen ik me het sterkst verzette.

- Alice Miller -

 

 

 Healthy relationships

 include

 uncomfortable conversations.

 

 

 

 

If I were to begin life again, 

I should want it as it was. 

I would only open my eyes a little more.

- Jules Renard -

 

 

There is a time when it is necessary to abandon the used clothes, which already have the shape of our body, and to forget our paths, which take us always to the same places. 

This is the time to cross the river: and if we don’t dare to do it, we will have stayed forever beneath ourselves.

- Fernando Pessoa -

 

 

 Each step forward

 is enough.

 Sonnet Alyse Medrano

 

 

 

 

 One can only remember 

what has been consciously experienced.

- Alice Miller -

Merci Frieda ! Redder in nood !

 

 

When people don’t express themselves,

 they die one piece at a time. 

You’d be shocked at how many adults are really dead inside

 — walking through their days with no idea who they are.

- Laurie Halse Anderson, Speak -

 

 

 We become free

 by transforming ourselves

 from unaware victims of the past 

into responsible individuals in the present,

 who are aware of our past 

and are thus able to live with it.

 
- Alice Miller -

 

 

 

 

MOEDERS 

ZIJN OOK DOCHTERS - Aflevering 1

- De Boeddhistische Blik - 

 

 Aflevering 2

For me, 

beauty is a physical sensation,

 something we feel with our whole body.

 It is not the result of judgement. 

We do not arrive at it by way of rules.

 We either feel beauty or we don't.

-  Jorge Luis Borges -

NITCH

 

 

 

Irritatie

 is iets

 waarmee je vooral 

jezelf irriteert.

 

 

 

 

 The Self has neither doubt nor belief in itself. 

It can never be confused. 

It is perfect reality above and beyond the mind. 

 It is absolutely what you are.

 But relatively what you appear to be 

 is the one seeking it...

-  Mooji - 

 

 

VOORBIJ HET VIRUS 

- De Boeddhistische Blik - 

 

 

 

'It's not about "letting it go".

 

 It's about "letting it in".

 

 It's about letting it deep. 

 

It's about letting it through.

 

 It's about being true to your feelings.

 

 It's about giving your experiences the attention they deserve.

 

 And that may take a moment, or it may take years. 

 

The trick is not to shame your need 

 

to hold on to what has yet to be resolved.....

 

let's let things in and through,

 

 until they are fully and truly ready to shift.

 

 Let's let it grow into the transformation at it's heart. 

 

We write our story by fully living it.

 

 Not by "letting it go" before its time.

 

 

- Jeff Brown -

 

 The truth may be puzzling. 

It may take some work to grapple with.

 It may be counter-intuitive.

 It may contradict deeply held prejudices.

 It may not be consonant with what we desperately want to be true.

 But our preferences do not determine what’s true. 

- Carl Sagan -

 

 The moon does not fight. 

It attacks no one. 

It does not worry.

 It does not try to crush others.

 It keeps to its course, but by its very nature, it gently influences.

 What other body could pull an entire ocean from shore to shore?

 The moon is faithful to its nature and its power is never diminished

 

- Ming Dao Deng -

 

The Crush — Oscar® Nominated Short Film

 

 

An error, 

gracefully acknowledged, 

is a victory won.

- Caroline Gascoigne -

To photograph is to hold one’s breath,

 when all faculties converge to capture fleeting reality. 

It’s at that precise moment that mastering an image 

becomes a great physical and intellectual joy.

-  Henri Cartier-Bresson, The Minds Eye -

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New Boy — Oscar® Nominated Short Film

NINA SIMONE Ain't got no - I got life