zaterdag 27 december 2014







Vergeven en vergeten 
betekent opgedane kostbare ervaringen
 uit het raam gooien.

- A. Schopenhauer - 











No one loses anyone, because no one owns anyone.

That is the true experience of freedom:

having the most important thing in the world without owning it.

- Paulo Coelho -









Don't let people pull you into their storms.

Pull them into your Peace.
 
 
- Author unknown - 
 
 
 



Be happy for no reason, like a child.

If you are happy for a reason, you’re in trouble,

because that reason can be taken from you.
 
- Deepak Chopra -






Have a heart that never hardens, 
and a temper that never tires, 
and a touch that never hurts. 
 
- Charles Dickens -







Maybe the journey isn’t about becoming anything.

Maybe it’s about unbecoming everything that isn’t you,

so you can be who you were meant to be in the first place.

- Adam -
 
 
 
 
 



Have a spacious, open, and compassionate attitude
 toward your thoughts and emotions, 
because in fact your thoughts are your family, 
the family of your mind.

 Before them, 
as Dudjom Rinpoche used to say:
 “Be like an old wise man, 
watching a child play.”




vrijdag 26 december 2014




Grace carried me here,
 
 and by Grace I’ll carry on...
 
 
 




- Bob Dylan -







 You can either feel sorry for yourself 
or treat what has happened as a gift.
 Everything is either an opportunity to grow 
or an obstacle to keep you from growing.
You get to choose.

- Wayne Dyer -









Need nothing 

and then see what happens.

- Gangaji -







Het is een maatschappelijk misverstand 
om te accepteren 
dat stress bij ons leven hoort. 
 
- Richard Carlson -



donderdag 25 december 2014




Je innerlijk zou een geheim moeten blijven 
waarover niemand zich hoeft op te winden,
 dat verdient het. 
 
Zoals die ouwe mop...
 
Vraag: Wat is het verschil tussen onwetendheid en onverschilligheid? 

Antwoord: Weet ik niet en het kan me niet schelen ook.
 

- Saul Bellow - De toeschouwer - 






If they don’t need you, it’s okay.

You do not live for other people.

- Kyo -







Aan de lengte van je leven kan je niets veranderen,

wel aan de breedte en de diepte
 
 
- Esar Evan -
 
 
 

woensdag 24 december 2014



Christmas has become more than just a celebration of the birth of Jesus.
It has become a global phenomena.
People, including Buddhists like myself, enjoy the lights and the tree and gift giving.
We enjoy the festive atmosphere and the warmth of the season.
 In short, Christmas is lovely.
 It brings people together.
Even if we are not Christians we can appreciate the wisdom of the teachings of Jesus, that gentle rabbi of the Galilee and all of these things are “the reason for the season”.

๑ Samsaran ๑

 http://panatmansam.tumblr.com/post/105951306791/secular-christmas




For what you do to others,


you do to yourself.


- Eckhart Tolle -
 
 
 






Een zuiver geweten

 is het beste schild.

- Onbekend -







The best day of your life

 is the one on which you decide your life is your own.

 No apologies or excuses.

 No one to lean on, rely on, or blame. 

The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey -

 and you alone are responsible for the quality of it.

 This is the day your life really begins. 

 

  Bob Moawad


dinsdag 23 december 2014

Child of Light







“I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes.

Because if you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You're doing things you've never done before, and more importantly, you're Doing Something.

So that's my wish for you, and all of us, and my wish for myself. Make New Mistakes. Make glorious, amazing mistakes. Make mistakes nobody's ever made before. Don't freeze, don't stop, don't worry that it isn't good enough, or it isn't perfect, whatever it is: art, or love, or work or family or life.

Whatever it is you're scared of doing, Do it.

Make your mistakes, next year and forever.”
 
 
 




Hope

Smiles from the threshold of the year to come,

Whispering 'it will be happier'...
 
 
 
 



    Never apologize for showing feeling.  
 
     When you do so, you apologize for the truth.
 
  - Benjamin Disraeli -   






People will love you. 

People will hate you. 

And none of it 

will have anything to do with you.


  Abraham Hicks
 
 
 

R.I.P. Joe Cocker - N'oubliez Jamais !




De vijand is een goede leraar. 

- Dalai Lama -






Geen bewustwording zonder pijn. 






Wat als...

we nu eens dankbaar zouden zijn 

voor wat we wèl hebben. 



maandag 22 december 2014

Abel Korzeniowski - W.E.





A lot of people think being introverted is a bit weird, 
I think it's weird that others can't enjoy their own company 
without the distraction of other people.
 
- Steven Aitchison -






zondag 21 december 2014






We lift ourselves by our thought. 
We climb upon our vision of ourselves. 
If you want to enlarge your life, 
you must first enlarge your thought of it and of yourself. 
Hold the ideal of yourself as you long to be, 
always everywhere. 

- Orison Swett Marden -










Soms kan het helpen om emotionele zaken rationeel proberen te bekijken.
Om te vermijden dat we er volledig in opgaan en een ongeleid projectiel worden.
Door er anders te gaan over denken, kun je je er ook anders bij gaan voelen.
Want het zijn je gedachten erover die de gevoelens teweegbrengen.
Als je die gedachten verandert, dan voelt het ook meteen anders.
Emoties zijn nodig, en ze moeten er ook mogen zijn en mogen gevoeld worden,
 maar je kan wel vermijden dat je jezelf er in verliest.

- geïnspireerd door een chat op facebook -

Bedankt Diana!




Take It As It Comes - The Doors



"Take It As It Comes"

Time to live
Time to lie
Time to laugh
Time to die

Takes it easy, baby
Take it as it comes
Don't move too fast
And you want your love to last
Oh, you've been movin' much too fast

Time to walk
Time to run
Time to aim your arrows
At the sun

Takes it easy, baby
Take it as it comes
Don't move too fast
And you want your love to last
Oh, you've been movin' much too fast

Go real slow
You like it more and more
Take it as it comes
Specialize in havin' fun

Takes it easy, baby
Take it as it comes
Don't move too fast
And you want your love to last
Oh, you've been movin' much too fast
Movin' much too fast
Movin' much too fast



Don’t judge me.


You can’t handle half of what I’ve dealt with.


There’s a reason I do the things I do.


There’s a reason why I am who I am.

- Unknown-


 
 
Christmas is coming ... 





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