vrijdag 12 november 2021


 

Beauty in Life

 

A man who fears suffering

 is already suffering

 from what he fears.

- Montaigne -

 

 

Fear begins and ends with the desire to be secure; inward and outward security, with the desire to be certain, to have permanency.

The continuity of permanence is sought in every direction, in virtue, in relationship, in action, in experience, in knowledge, in outward and inward things.

To find security and be secure is the everlasting cry.

It is this insistent demand that breeds fear.

Is there security? Is there permanency which man is seeking all the time?

As you notice for yourself, your body changes, the cells of the body change so often.

As you see for yourself in your relationship with your wife, with your children, with your neighbor, with your state, with your community, is there anything permanent?

You would like to make it permanent.

The relationship with your wife—you call it marriage, and legally hold it tightly.

But is there permanency in that relationship?

Because if you have invested permanency in your wife or husband, when she turns away, or looks at another, or dies, or some illness takes place, you are completely lost….

The actual state of every human being is uncertainty.

Those who realize the actual state of uncertainty either see the fact and live with it there or they go off, become neurotic, because they cannot face that uncertainty.”
 
~Krishnamurti

“As we practice moving into the present moment this way, we become more familiar with groundlessness, a fresh state of being that is available to us on an ongoing basis.

This moving away from comfort and security, this stepping out into what is unknown, uncharted, and shaky—that’s called liberation.

Sticking with uncertainty is how we learn to relax in the midst of chaos, how we learn to be cool when the ground beneath us suddenly disappears.

We can bring ourselves back to the spiritual path countless times every day simply by exercising our willingness to rest in the uncertainty of the present moment—over and over again.”
 
~Pema Chodron 


Shine On

 

HARDER PRATEN 

helpt niet

 


 

 

 Sometimes people let the same problem

 make them miserable for years

 when they could just say, 

‘So what.’ 

That’s one of my favorite things to say. 

‘So what.’

- Andy Warhol -




It is simply this: 

do not tire, 

never lose interest, 

never grow indifferent…

lose your invaluable curiosity 

and you let yourself die.

 It's as simple as that.

- Tove Jansson -

NITCH

 


 

 

 Leave your thoughts alone

almost have an attitude that they are just noise, 

like traffic noise, 

or the wind through the trees noise, 

or the noise of a dog barking.

- Adyashanti -




 

 

You are not lazy, unmotivated, or stuck. 

After years of living in survival mode,

 you are exhausted. 

There’s a difference.

- Nakeia Homer -



donderdag 11 november 2021

With a hug from Frieda


 


 

Wapenstilstand.
 
Laat ons vandaag ook eens stilstaan bij de harde woorden die menig hart en ziel als kogels doorboren. Online of verbaal. Je mag een mening hebben, je hoeft niet alles leuk te vinden, maar laten mensen in hun waardigheid. Denk na, scroll door, klik/stap weg. Toon respect en wees lief voor elkaar! 
 
 


 


 

Be Kind - It’s The Size Of Your Heart That Matters


 

 

 The key to transformation 

is to make friends with this moment. 

What form it takes doesn't matter. 

Say yes to it. 

Allow it.

 Be with it.

 - Eckhart Tolle -




 

 

LIVE THE QUESTIONS NOW

- Rainer Maria Rilke - 

 

 


 

 

If it's out of your hands

it deserves freedom from your mind too.

 


 

 

 You can only lose 

what you cling to.

 

 


 


 

woensdag 10 november 2021

Grounded in Realness


 

Midnight Oil - Beds Are Burning


Valériane LeBlond

 

 

 Degene die alles geleegd heeft zien worden,

 weet waar alles door wordt gevuld.    

  -Antonio Porchia-

 

 


 

 

 When you make the present moment,

 instead of past and future, 

the focal point of your life, 

your ability to enjoy what you do

 and with it the quality of your life 

increases dramatically.

- Eckhart Tolle -




 Power from Frieda 


 


Leerling: Zou je me straffen voor iets wat ik niet gedaan heb?


Docent: Dat zou ik nooit doen!


Leerling: Fijn, ik heb namelijk mijn huiswerk niet gedaan.

 
Omdenken door kinderen
 
 


 


 

dinsdag 9 november 2021

Wat definiëert je?


 

 

 Poetry, 

though it is born out of one person’s solitude, 

 has the ability

 to reach out and touch 

in a humane and warmly illuminating way,

 the solitude,

 even the loneliness,

 of others.


- Brendan Kennelly -



 

 

Assumptions are lazy and often wrong.

Assumptions often tell us more about who we are

 than who someone else is. 

Assumptions often reflect of our fear, insecurity or prejudice.

 

 


 


 

 

 Gratitude 

builds a bridge 

to abundance.

- Roy T. Bennett -



 

zondag 7 november 2021


 

 

We worden niet tegengehouden 

door de liefde die we in het verleden 

niet ontvingen,

maar door de liefde die we in het heden 

niet uitdragen.

- Marianne Williamson -

 

 


 


 
Man, 

sometimes

it takes you a long time

 to sound 

like yourself.

-  Miles Davis -

NITCH

 

 


Bedankt Frieda !