This is one more piece of advice I have for you: don’t get impatient. 

Even if things are so tangled up you can’t do anything, don’t get desperate or blow a fuse and start yanking on one particular thread before it’s ready to come undone. 

You have to figure it’s going to be a long process and that you’ll work on things slowly, one at a time.

- Haruki Murakami, Norwegian Wood -